Saturday, December 11, 2021

Our Old Christmas Tree

 

Photo by Richard Collett 2019

Nearly a decade ago, when we moved into our present home, we decided to decorate for Christmas with a new artificial tree, wider and taller than our previous tree, as our new living room was larger. Setting up the tree was a lengthy project for my dear husband, as he spent hours on his knees removing the individual branches from their cells in a honeycomb-style container. Then he inserted each branch in its own groove on the trunk (which itself first had to be screwed together from its component pieces).

Finally we would look at it from all angles to get it as straight as possible, which meant my husband would lie prone on the floor, the lowest branches scraping his back, while he tweaked the trunk base this way and that in response to my direction.  Then came the lighting, with a key section inevitably burned out once the whole connected string was in place, requiring weeding out the defective chain and reconnecting a new one.

This process took its toll on my husband’s back and knees, not to mention on the tree limbs, which lost needles every time the tree was assembled and disassembled. Over the years, we thought about replacing it with a fresh cut tree, but we felt that a live tree looked and functioned much better in its native environment than in our living room.

Yet each year, the once beautiful and full spruce had more bare spots, with many branch tips brown from the absence of needles. My husband finally cleared out enough space in the lanai closet to store the fully assembled tree strung with lights, so that we could just do the “Christmas tree drag” through the sliders from the lanai to the living room, which was much quicker and easier. But needles still continued to fall because of contact with the tarp covering it while being stored, and because of the many ornaments we hung each year.

We thought about getting another artificial tree, but we found it difficult to justify the expense of a new tree of similar size, fullness and quality. More importantly, so many memories in our new home were inextricably linked to this “new” tree!

Such as the first Christmas we celebrated with the lovely young woman who would soon become our son’s wife! The first Christmas dinner, a succulent Beef Wellington, prepared under the leadership of our son. The first Christmas we enjoyed the antics of a canine guest – our son’s and daughter-in-law’s Australian shepherd, as he “herded” the stuffed toy squirrels we gave him, dashing around and around the tree, stopping and starting on a dime, changing direction abruptly, while miraculously knocking no ornaments off the tree!

Every Christmas we record a short video in front of this tree, recounting the special events of that year, the most memorable gifts, and especially the many blessings for which we thank God and give Him all the glory.

So each year, including this one, we drag the old Christmas tree, always showing its age a bit more, into our living room. It looks sparse and awkward at first, like Charlie Brown’s tree but broader. But soon the bare branches disappear as we fill them with special ornaments, each telling a special story that reflects a precious part of our history.

Some collectible ornaments were given to me by my mother when I was still in college. Others commemorate my rescue dog (rescued from dog lab in medical school!), our first Christmas together, our engagement, our honeymoon in Hawaii, our first Christmas in our new home, our son’s first Christmas, his first apartment. Mementos of our many travels, for dance shows and vacations, from England, Hong Kong, Japan, Italy, Ireland, Switzerland, France, Grand Canyon, Las Vegas, and so many more.

Our dance ministry history can be read from this tree. Special performances we gave and competitions at the Grand Ol’ Opry, Blackpool Dance Festival, World Swing Dance Championships. And a unique ornament depicting each of the dances we choreographed, to music and themes including O Holy Night, Phantom of the Opera, Christmas Toys Come Alive, Transformed, Bring Him Home, Sun and Moon, and many others!

Our old Christmas tree also reminds me of our senior saints. They may have walked this earth for many years, seen much better times, and lost some hair and teeth along the journey, but their memories, wisdom and experiences are truly irreplaceable. As lights of the world, they shine brightly with the inner radiance of knowing Christ (Matthew 5:14).

Once we are saved by trusting in the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus Christ (1 Corinthians 15:4) as the only Way to Heaven (John 14:6), He enables His perfect will and plan to be accomplished in our lives (Jeremiah 29:11; Philippians 1:6). Only He can transform what is broken, flawed and worn out into a new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17; Galatians 6:15) of unique beauty and purpose, for we are His workmanship (Ephesians 2:10).

Our Christmas tree may be old, but when lit and decorated with the colors of the season, it still serves the purpose of praising Him and reminding ourselves and others of the miracle of Christ’s birth – Emmanuel (Matthew 1:23), God with us in the flesh! He came as a lowly Infant (Luke 2:5-7), the sinless Lamb of God (John 1:29), to suffer and die on our behalf (Romans 3:25), that all who trust Him will live forever! (John 3:16)

Only Christ can take our bare frame and adorn it with precious ornaments of Godly virtue, meek and quiet Spirit (1 Peter 3:3-5), fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), the light of His love, and testimonies of His faithfulness and provision through challenges, storms and trials (1 Samuel 7:12). May we cherish each of these gifts and call them to remembrance daily, praising Him for the new life He breathes into our old frame. And may we look forward to that day, which I pray and believe will be very soon, when He replaces our tired, aging bodies with glorious resurrection bodies (1 Corinthians 15:42-58), and we shall be as He is!

© 2021 Laurie Collett


 

9 comments:

grams ramblings said...

A beautiful post. Thank you so much. And though your Christmas tree may be old, the Love you bring to the decorating of it and the reason for it, is always new.

Laurie Collett said...

Thank you so much, grams ramblings, for your lovely comment. You are so right -- love never grows old! God bless,
Laurie

Frank E. Blasi said...

Dear Laurie,
I recall as a boy when Dad bought a real tree every year and set it up in our lounge. That with its coloured baubles of thin coloured glass adorned the tree.
How I loved it and how and brought excitement for that special morning!
Sure, there was always detached needles on the floor, forming a circle which Mum brushed and panned every so often.
But the best feature about a real tree is that it emits that Christmassy fragrance that hits me whenever I enter the room.
Nowadays, we have an artificial tree, one metre high, including the pot. It serves its purpose but doesn't have the "magic" of the real tree of childhood nostalgia!
Best wishes to you and Richard.

Brenda said...

Hi Laurie,
I enjoyed reading this post, it is lovely, and I would never get rid of that tree if I was you. The memories it brings back are lovely, and I would say the tree is part of the family now. We are all growing older and changing, but I would never get rid of my husband because he has changed in appearance from when we got married, and vice versa. He always says that we will go together holding hands :-), only the Lord knows. God bless you, Richard and your family, and have a lovely Christmas.

Laurie Collett said...

Dear Frank,
While living in New York City I bought a real tree from a "tree farm" in upstate New York on the way home from a weekend away. The tree looked lush and green on the lot at night, and indeed it was green, but when I saw it in the lighting of my apartment, I realized it had been spray painted green! It dried up in a hurry, and then the needles spread everywhere -- seems like I found them in dresser drawers for years to come! The last straw was when my dog mistook the white tree skirt for snow outdoors!
The tree I remember from Christmases of my youth was an aluminum tree lit by a spinning wheel of different colors. Tacky but all the rage in the 50s and 60s!
May God bless you and Alex, and may you have a blessed Christmas,
Laurie

Laurie Collett said...

Hi Brenda,
Thank you so much for your encouraging and insightful comment. You are quite right -- the tree is now part of the family! You and I are blessed in our marriages -- Praise God for spouses who recognize the spiritual beauty in one another that transcends the physical signs of aging, and who cleave to one another as is God's plan.
God bless you,
Laurie

Susan said...

Laurie, what a wonderful post, and love the photo ❤️

I read the other comments 😁😉I had the aluminum tree with the colour wheel with four colours: red, green, blue, and yellow. I loved that tree!!! I was about ten years old when we had that tree. Hope you have a nice Christmas and a very blessed 2022 ❤️

Laurie Collett said...

Hi Susan,
Thanks for your kind words and for sharing your experience! As a little girl, I loved sitting in an easy chair by our aluminum tree and watching the light and colors bounce off the walls in a constantly changing pattern of reflections. Merry Christmas to you, and all blessings for 2022,
Laurie

Tanza Erlambang said...

beautiful Christmas tree... love it.

# Have a wonderful day