At last, winter is over, the Christmas decorations have
long since been stashed in the attic, and the empty space in our living room
and on mantels and hutches seems to invite more mementos, for nature truly
does abhor a vacuum.
Time for spring cleaning! Sometimes when I go on a cleaning
streak, I fool myself that I’m accomplishing something meaningful. Sometimes I
organize and clean the things in my life to give myself the illusion of
control, which is far more feasible over things than it is over circumstances or
negative attitudes.
My husband often jokes that our house looks like a museum,
not because its contents are of great material value, but because we tend to
collect and display many things. I attribute such proclivities of mine to
genetics. My aunt left me her collections – spoons, teacups, Hummel figurines;
and my mother her collections of books and Russian Easter eggs. I guess I am just
too sentimental not to display them. And of course, my husband and I had to add
to this by collecting books and spoons of our own, and Christmas ornaments
unique to every place we have visited.
The upfront cost of these trinkets was minimal, and they do
bring smiles to our faces when they trigger the associated memories. But they take
up wall space, and drawer space, and make dusting seem like an endless task. As
you might imagine, I tend to put this off for special occasions or for when we
are expecting company. No doubt our allergies would improve if we didn’t have
so much to dust!
My husband got the bug for collecting from the beach, which
at least has no additional monetary cost beyond the expense of traveling there.
First it was shells, then sharks’ teeth, and now fossils that delight us as we
marvel that petrified horse toes, ankle bones of a camel, and other rare finds
wash up on the shore!
He has run out of space for these in the collector’s chests
I bought him one Christmas. (Yes, one of the problems with having a lot of
stuff is that you have to buy more stuff to organize and store it). So now the
best of these treasures find temporary lodging there until they are relegated
to the garage, replaced by newer and more interesting specimens.
Speaking of the garage, its musty corners have been the
bane of my existence lately as I continue the never-ending chore of sorting
through old stuff. Stuff that got dumped in boxes, moved to a paid storage
facility, then from one closet and garage to the next. It followed us, binding
us like the chains of Ebenezer Scrooge, as we moved from one home to another,
as I closed my private practice, and as my mother closed her gift shop and
moved from Pennsylvania to Florida.
When our son outgrew his childhood things, went to college,
moved into his own place, and got married, guess who was left holding his
unwanted stuff? When my mother and then my husband’s mother moved from their
homes to an assisted living facility and then passed into eternity, we became
curators of their remaining stuff.
At first I justified this by rationalizing that we are
documenting our family history and preserving family heirlooms for future
generations. And sometimes I do enjoy opening boxes for the thrill of perhaps
discovering some lost treasure, or awakening a joyful memory that has slumbered
through the years, or wondering about people I don’t recognize in old photos of
family get-togethers.
Yet some memories are best left undisturbed, and the
reminder can be as troubling as finding a silverfish scurrying across a dainty
embroidered napkin. When I am being honest with myself, I realize that the
costs of holding on to these unneeded things can be stifling and oppressive.
The expense of a storage facility, in retrospect, was totally unjustified as I
have recently opened cartons only to find that their contents are obsolete,
damaged by time and the elements, or not worth saving in the first place.
Yet we are not alone in this folly. In 2014 alone, with
rates on the rise ever since, there were approximately
52,000 self-storage facilities in the U.S., occupying a total roofed area three
times the size of Manhattan, and generating more than $5,200,000,000 in revenue
each year, renting to one of every ten U.S. families!
Not to mention the intangible costs: clutter, lack of
access to space needed to maintain a home workshop or to protect vehicles,
potential for injury and fatigue from repeated moving of heavy boxes, and
exposure to allergens causing respiratory or skin issues. Or even tripping over
a wayward box and falling. At first we may think we enjoy owning a lot of
stuff, until we realize that the stuff owns us.
Too much clutter has invaded other areas of my life. The
DVR is in constantly warning me “97% full,” even though I delete programs as
soon as I watch them. As I only play these programs as background while
exercising, sorting through mail, or cleaning, will I ever get through them
all? On a more worrisome note, my Inbox is filling up so rapidly and I’ve
accumulated so many downloads that now my computer is crawling at a turtle’s
pace. It’s time to clear those out too,
before it crashes altogether.
Dealing with all this junk reminds me of the need to
release the spiritual burdens in our life. Jesus was the perfect, sinless sacrifice Who died on the cross to pay for all our sins (John 1:29; Romans 3:25; 1 John 2:2; 4:10).
So why do we refuse to lay down our heavy burdens of guilt over past mistakes
at the foot of His cross and just leave them there?
He is risen from the dead (Acts 17:3; Romans 8:34; 1 Corinthians 15:13-14, 20)
so that all who trust Him as Lord and Savior will have eternal life with Him in Heaven (John 3:16), and even
now are elevated to heavenly places with Him (Ephesians 1:3; 2:6).
So why do we needlessly carry around the weight of a bad
attitude, unthankful spirit, unclean heart, or fear? He has liberated us from
this spiritual clutter, cleansed us from our sins in His own precious blood (1 John 1:7), and robed us with
the pristine garment of His righteousness (Job
29:14; Isaiah 61:10).
As we tackle spring cleaning, whether it be just vacuuming
and yard work, or more vigorous measures like pressure washing the driveway, or
finally parting with cumbersome baggage, may we not neglect the need for
spiritual cleansing. Scripture tells us to cleanse daily by washing with the
water of the Word (Ephesians 5:26).
If we neglect this, God, as our loving Father, may see fit
to do some pressure washing, first using the Word as a two-edged sword to
cleave apart joints from marrow and soul from spirit (Hebrews 4:12), and then applying physical pressure in the
form of trials to chasten us (Hebrews
12:6).
God wants to bless us with His best gifts (Matthew 7:11), but as long as our
arms and hearts are filled with the junk of our life before we were saved, He
will not replace this with His abundant blessings (Philippians 4:19) His burden is easy and His yoke is light,
so why do we stubbornly cling onto our old ways? He invites us to come to Him
for respite from our burdens and to learn from His servant’s heart, and He
promises us rest (Matthew 11:28-30).
Being yoked together with Jesus (Hebrews 13:5) ensures that He will help us, and that He will
not only carry our burdens (1 Peter 5:7),
but that He will carry us. Learning from Him to have a servant’s heart means
that our priorities will be in the right place, on loving and serving Him and
others (Luke 10:27), and not
on hoarding excess things that weigh us down (Luke 12:15-34). Peace comes not from having earthly riches
or provisions, but from storing up treasures in Heaven, where we can enjoy them
throughout eternity (Matthew 6:19-20).
Suddenly I feel motivated to rummage through the remaining
boxes in the garage, armed with a huge trash bag for most of the contents and
cleaning supplies for those items that can be salvaged and given away. More
importantly, I vow to cleanse myself daily in the Living Water (John 4:10) of His Word!
© 2019 Laurie Collett
14 comments:
Hi Laurie,
I must admit that I am not a hoarder of any kind, except all my little notelets that I write for my blog posts in my work room. My husband tells me that my room is a 'junk' room because of all the notelets I keep. His garage, I have to say, is immaculate :-)
As far as what is most important in my life that I hoard, it is the teaching of the Holy Spirit concerning God's word that can transform me in to what I can become as a child of God. The rubbish is in the carnal mind, and what is in the mind of Christ is all that I want.
God bless you for sharing this Laurie.
yes, I think that my "arms and hearts are filled with the junk."
Thank you for your post. Have a great day
Hi Brenda,
I can't imagine an immaculate garage! :-) The garage is my husband's territory, but even my study is filled with piles of books, collections on display, and papers (which, by God's grace, are a lot more organized than they used to be!)
I agree completely that once we are saved, we have the mind of Christ through His Holy Spirit within us, transforming us and teaching us through His Word. May we embrace His truth!!
Thank you for sharing your insights and experience, and God bless,
Laurie
Hi Tanza,
You're very welcome, and thank you for your comment! May you have a wonderful weekend!
God bless,
Laurie
Dear Laurie,
Quite an interesting article you have written there, quoting your husband's jokes on how your home looks like a museum.
Perhaps I can identify with that, except that our lounge resembles an art gallery, or more appropriately, a photo gallery.
All around our four walls framed photos of my pre-marriage travels are on display, along with destinations my wife and I had been to together.
However, I don't have any wishes to be called a fool by God (Luke 12:16-21) for the want of building bigger barns - only to die that same day!
Instead, I see those photos as a reminder of the goodness of God in our lives and therefore giving a springboard to thank him for so many undeserved blessings and to acknowledge his goodness.
An excellent post about clearing out unwanted stuff from our minds and spirits.
God bless.
Dear Frank,
Collecting memories is a reminder of God's goodness, and photos are an excellent way to preserve memories. The warning in Luke 12 is a great lesson on how God's material blessings are not intended for us to hoard, but to share with others so that we can be a channel through whom blessings flow.
Thanks as always for your encouragement and for sharing your insights and experience.
God bless,
Laurie
Thanks for the great reminder. We can trust God, and don't need to hoard all the physical and spiritual junk just in case we might want it some time in the future, or even to remind us of all the details of the past.
Amen, Donald! He is all we need.
God bless,
Laurie
O what a good spiritual lesson is there in you blogpost! Thanks for the reminder.
Thank you, Aritha, for your encouraging comment! God bless,
Laurie
I thought you have a new post.
Have a great day
On Saturday, Lord willing! Have a great weekend!
Laurie
Laurie, your post was interested for it brought reminders of how my life for years was filled with stuff, physical and sin. Christ started cleaning me up from the inside out and years later I begin the process of decluttering my life. Little did I know God was getting me ready to really get rid of stuff. We owned a house which housed my husband and I and our two children. We had all the trappings that made us looking like we were living the American Dream. But it was not fulfilling. As we grew in Him He begin to ask more of us and we kept saying yes everytime then He directed us into over seas missions and that is where I learned to not horde stuff. We called it living on a one way ticket. One can only take so much for that kind of living. The first country we live din was Bolivia, SA and we took 19 army duffle bags full of everything it takes to set up house. WE came home 9 years later with a few less bag. WE step out for a while and moved back into our rented house and started living the American dream, filled our house with all the seemingly things others had, only to finally sell our house to go serve in another country, Papua New Guinea. This time it was just my husband and I, we took so little for we had learned it takes so little to live. I am not one of those people who think we should live without just to do it for the sake of saying we could do it. I love convenience things such as paper plates, Walmarts, running water, washer and drying etc., all the modern things we take for granted in the states. have no keepsakes because I cannot take any of with me to heaven. Both our children do not want any nick nacks or anything from us but our bibles. We do not own a house, our car is old but runs well. I do get the itch to buy a small place for us when we retire. But I have a feeling it's will not be God itch for us. Both are parents are gone and those in heaven would tell us we are sure to enjoy stuff but don't let it keep us from making Him number one and serving Him. Now I need to get on your dancing site, wish I could see you dance and I will see if you are on youtube. Keep cleaning.
Thank you so much for sharing your awesome testimony! Truly all we need is Him, and to be in the center of His perfect will for our life. Thank you for the encouragement to keep on clearing out the clutter, both physical and spiritual.
Yes, we are on YouTube, and if you search "Richard and Laurie Collett" you will find many videos. Here is a link to one called "Save Me, Jesus" danced to lyrics I wrote and the vocal I recorded:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i0zDf86eaIU
God bless you,
Laurie
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