Saturday, May 12, 2018

Give Up Your Child to God!

Photo by bigbirdz 2010

As we celebrate Mother’s Day, we can be thankful for earthly mothers and Godly women who let the love of Jesus Christ shine through them (Ephesians 3:17,19; 5:2), even if that means surrendering their child to God’s perfect will. But sadly, many mothers relinquish their child not to God’s perfect grace, but to an idol or false god. In Scripture we see two examples of these contrasting motives and outcomes.

Pressured by the demands of false religion, mothers sacrificed their infants to Molech, the fire god, in a barbaric ritual begun by neighboring pagan lands but enforced by Ahaz and Manasseh, kings of Israel (2 Chronicles 28:3; 33:6). As children were burned at the altar, drums beat incessantly to drown out the wailing of the infants and their mothers who may have realized too late the horrors of what they were doing.

Even King Solomon, wisest of all men (1 Kings 4:29-34), built altars to Molech to keep the peace with his pagan wives, and I assume he may have even allowed his own offspring by these women to be tossed into the flames. In addition to this punishment, God’s judgment for this evil was the loss of Solomon’s kingdom (1 Kings 11:4-11). God considered this such an abomination (Jeremiah 32:35) that He demanded stoning for those who sacrificed their infants to Molech (Leviticus 20:2-5).

In contrast, Hannah, wife of Elkinah, “gave up” her son to the One true Jehovah God and was richly blessed in return. Although Elkinah loved Hannah far more than his other wife Peninnah and treated her far better, this could not assuage Hannah’s grief over being barren. To rub salt in the wound, fertile Peninnah taunted Hannah for bearing no children, and Elkinah meant well but couldn’t understand why his own love for Hannah was not enough (1 Samuel 1:1-8),

The story has many parallels to that of Jacob, who loved his wife Rachel far more than her sister Leah, even though Leah bore him children whereas Rachel was initially childless (Genesis 29:16-35; 30:1-25).

Hannah fasted, prayed fervently and wept, in “bitterness of soul,” that God would give her a son. Her faith was so strong that she promised to return that child to God in His service, by allowing him to assist the priest and train to be one even as a young child (1 Samuel 1:1-10-16).

Some might say that she was striking a bargain with God, which in my opinion would be a sin of pride and of unbelief. Essentially, offering something to God in exchange for a particular outcome implies that we know what we need better than God does, that He does not love us enough to do what is best for us, and that He needs something from us (Matthew 6:8,32; 7:11; Psalm 50:7-14).

Scripture is clear that those who make a vow to God must honor it or face dire consequences (Deuteronomy 23:21,23; Ecclesiastes 5:4), and that we should think carefully before making a foolish promise or one that we cannot or will not honor (Judges 11:30-40)

But rather than bargaining with God. I believe that Hannah had the faith to know God could answer her prayer for a son and that He is the source of all good gifts (James 1:17). She “vowed a vow” to consecrate that child to Him (Psalm 50:14; 66:13), in essence thanking Him in advance for granting her request (Philippians 4:6).

Eli, the priest who at first thought Hannah was drunk, ultimately recognized her profound faith and believed that God would grant her request. Further evidence of Hannah’s faith is that she came to the altar in utmost distress, yet after she poured out her soul, she left in peace, trusting God for the outcome (1 Samuel 1: 17-18). She conceived shortly after they returned home from the yearly pilgrimage to the Lord’s house, and appropriately named her son Samuel, meaning “God has heard.”

True to her promise, Hannah raised Samuel until he was weaned, then returned to the Lord’s house where she offered him to assist Eli and to be trained by him as a priest. She and Elkinah also gave a generous offering and worshipped the Lord for answering her prayer. How heart-wrenching it must have been for Hannah to “lend her son to the Lord” for as long as he would live, and to return to her strangely quiet home that was once filled with her toddler’s cries (v. 22-28).

But Hannah continued in prayer and in praise, singing a song of worship (1 Samuel 2:1-10) that many centuries later would inspire Mary to sing the Magnificat when she learned God had chosen her to be the mother of Jesus (Luke 1:46-55). Samuel served God under Eli’s supervision, and was a shining light in a priest’s house darkened by the evil deeds of his sons and by the spiritual weakness of the priest himself (1 Samuel 2:12-18; 22-25).

Each year Hannah and Elkinah faithfully returned to the Lord’s house for offering and worship, and each year she brought Samuel a new coat she had made to accommodate the growing lad (v. 19). I wonder if she kept a special chest filled with his outgrown garments as a memory of the son whose company she could not enjoy? But thankfully, she would soon need them, as Eli prayed that God would give her a child to make up for the one she had lent to Him (v. 20).

You can’t outgive God (Luke 6:38), so it doesn’t surprise me that God answered that prayer by blessing Hannah with three more sons and two daughters! (1 Samuel 2:21) She was doubly blessed, not only with a large family but with knowing that Samuel was growing in God’s grace and service (v. 26). Ultimately God spoke directly to Samuel warning him of Eli’s destruction to come and making him a great prophet (1 Samuel 3).

Not all of our children are called to be preachers or missionaries, but as parents who believe in Christ’s death, burial and resurrection as the only way to Heaven (1 Corinthians 15:1-4; John 14:6), we should lend our children to the Lord for whatever service He has intended for them.

Yet we hear of children who want to go to fulfill the Great Commission (Matthew 28:19) by going to forsaken parts of the earth to spread the Good News of the Gospel (Acts 1:8), and of parents who discourage them, out of fear or selfish motives of wanting to keep them nearby.

In truth, “our” children are His, not ours, and He has graciously lent them to us. May we encourage them by our example to trust in Christ alone, to pray, to study His Word, and to serve Him! God will reward us many times over!

© 2014 Laurie Collett
Reposted from the archives



Frank E. Blasi said...

Dear Laurie,
I have often wondered about the wonderful fellowship these two women, Hannah and Mary, must be enjoying in Heaven to this day.
On the other hand, it can be easy to think down on Eli for the way he brought up his two sons. The fact is that Samuel himself was not a better father either ( 1 Samuel 8:1-5) which opened the door of opportunity for Israel to ask Samuel for a king.
As for the history of motherhood, it is true indeed that many of them, willingly or unwillingly, offered their newborn to the likes of Moloch. History also informs us that the same practice was carried out among the Incas or the Aztecs before the Spanish arrived in the 16th Century
At least Hannah was willing to give away her child to God and furthermore, she knows where to find him. In addition, she raised Samuel's siblings, who all grew up at home.
Our three daughters are presently growing up at somebody else's home. Our eldest will soon be eighteen years old and will come of age, after being placed for adoption, against our will.
But at least they are alive and all doing well. Quite likely they had better provisions than that we could have provided for them. For that we're grateful. At least we did not experience the intense suffering of parents living in Bethlehem, whose sons were slain under Herod's orders. Instead, our ongoing trust in God's goodness has sustained us to this day.
An excellent post, God bless.

Laurie Collett said...

Dear Frank,
Great point about Samuel's parenting also resulting in less than Godly behavior from his sons. But even God, the perfect Father, had to deal with rebellion from Adam and Eve despite all the blessings He gave them and the perfect fellowship He had with them.
I pray that you and Alex will one day experience the blessing of restoration with your children. In the meantime, you are to be commended for your attitude of gratitude.
Thanks so much for your comment and God bless,

Donald Fishgrab said...

Great post, laurie.

How many today are sacrificing their own children to idols such as careers and pleasure, either by having abortions, or by leaving them for someone else to raise while they follow a career, education or drugs and alcohol? While the first two seem like noble goals, they can be just as ungodly as the sex or drugs and alcohol.

Laurie Collett said...

Very true, Donald -- career and other "worthwhile" goals in the world's eyes can become weights keeping us from fulfilling our God-given purpose, or even if sins if we lack self-control over how we go about them.
Thanks as always for your comment and God bless,

Susan said...

What a blessing to read your blogpost today Laurie. Very sweet yet nourishing. I have mostly been posing on my Facebook page but hope to return to blogging again soon. Spring is extremely busy for me, between weeding and planting and cutting our huge lawn! It’s been a long time since I’ve read about Hannah, I didn’t realize (remember?) that Hannah was blessed with other children afterward. That’s wonderful! God is amazing!

Susan said...

Posting not posing....Freudian slip? 😮

Laurie Collett said...

Thank you, Susan, for your encouraging comment! I look forward to reading more of your blog posts in the near future. Praise God that He always answers our prayers exceedingly abundantly beyond what we could ever ask or think!
God bless,